YOUR POWER IS YOURS TO KEEP

Knowing when to walk away from a relationship or a career is more of a journey rather than a destination. You realize that the relationship or career has not allowed you to grow; that you might’ve outgrown them. You might feel unappreciated, undervalued, or perhaps both.

We have all been there at some point time in our lives. I too have made excuses on why to stay and continue giving, giving time and chances. With maturity and life experiences, I have come to learn that people will treat you however you allow them because if you give them enough rope they will hang you with it. Yes; you read right. They will hang you with it.

If you don’t choose yourself, you can’t ever expect anyone else to. When people don’t have the right intentions for you they have a way of making you feel like you are undeserving of better. Those people will steal your dreams, your goals, and your happiness if you are not careful.

If you don’t have a sense of self these people may appear to be lifesavers or heroes. I am here to tell you that they are dangerous people. You must be aware that there are people who want to see you thrive and there are people who want to see you survive. Know the difference. When someone truly cares for you they will always want what’s best for you even if it doesn’t benefit them.

Learn to go into situations wary yet hopeful. Some people are not ready for you and some people never will be. You should be earned, not taken. Of course, this is easier said than done as this is something that I am still learning to this day. But, I am finally getting the hang of it and it feels damn good.

So remember, don’t give your power away because it’s yours to keep, and don’t allow anyone to control you because you own your mental freedom.